What’s The Difference Between Self-Love And Love Of Self?

"If I could write a prescription for the women of the world," wrote psychologist Dr. James Dobson, "it would provide each of them with a healthy dose of self-esteem and personal worth.  I have no doubt that this is their greatest need."  But is the same need present for men?  I, for one, believe it is.  What most people need today is a good dose of self-esteem that is a great deal different from ego or pride.